Helping others holds them back! Have you ever tried to help someone you love, only to find the more you offered, the more they pulled away?

In this week’s episode of Unbox The Podcast, Sahar Palmer explores a hidden dynamic many of us fall into when our loving intention to guide, protect, or advise actually blocks the growth of the people we care about most.

Unconscious Roles We Inherited

We often repeat roles we inherited—being the fixer, the rescuer, the one who knows best—without realising we’re holding others back. Whether it’s your child, niece, student, or mentee, stepping in too often can rob them of the space they need to find their own way.

You’re not wrong for caring. But caring without awareness can become control.

A personal Account

Sahar shares a personal story about her niece telling her to “just write a book” after another round of unsolicited advice. It became a moment of clarity—a chance to unbox an inherited role and choose a better way to support.

Episode 32 of Unbox The Podcast

You’ll also hear:
• Why the more emotionally invested we are, the harder it is to remain objective
• How inherited roles shape our behaviour more than we realise
• What real support looks like across generations
• Why each generation has its own rhythm and purpose—and why they’re not meant to repeat ours

Sahar draws on her signature BEMA™ methodology (Body, Emotions, Mind, Accountability to Action) to help you reflect and act from a place of conscious awareness rather than old programming.

This episode is for you if:
• You’ve ever said “I’m just trying to help” and been met with silence or resistance
• You feel frustrated watching someone make choices you don’t agree with
• You want to break generational patterns and allow your loved ones to grow on their terms

🌀 Rewrite your story. Reclaim your power.

🎧 Listen now to S25E32 – When Helping Others Actually Holds Them Back

📍 And if you’re ready to deepen your intuitive skills and stop second-guessing yourself, check out my newly published eBook Unbox Your Psychic Potential. Audio course to follow soon!